PERSONAL HAPPINESS PART 1

I was in ecstatic mood last night after the game and I had fun taking it out of my Arsenal supporter friends.. (Chelsea won Arsenal Capital one Cup)... :) 

Personal Happiness. The secret of happiness. I wanna share on this a little today. How can you be really happy? I remember someone asking me this question a few years ago. He wanted to know why I seem to be happy all the time like nothing is wrong...

There's no big deal about this. To be happy, you need to understand the following principles and follow them closely:

Firstly, you have to understand that no one holds the key to your happiness. You are responsible for your own happiness. YOU! People make this mistake all the time. they constantly seek approvals from others to live their lives. Their happiness depends on others - Never give anyone the chance to control your happiness and joy. Never! You are special all by yourself.

Secondly, don't stay in any relationship where you are not celebrated.

This one is the sole reason I stay happy all the time lol. I have learnt this many years ago. You'll never find me any place I'm not needed. If you sense that you are being tolerated in any way. Please leave that place/relationship immediately no matter who they are.

Even Jesus was never found around people who don't desire him. He couldn't do miracles cos they don't believe him He walked away.

Finally, you have to accept that you are unique just the way you are. There are no extra people in this world. You have a gift and greatness inside of you. If you look inward, you can tap happiness & fulfillment from the inside of yourself.

I will share some more later. I hope you enjoy reading this.
Be Your Best

LEADERSHIP AT WORK

This morning, I spoke a little bit on Leadership at Work. 

The best form of leadership is that which has no title. If you believe you need a title to be your best at work, then you will not be able to show great leadership.

I always have this in my mind each day I go to work. I want to be the First, the Most, the Only and the Best. Do your work as if the business is yours. Give more than 100% of your efforts and skills.

I devote myself to my work. I always believe that working for someone else is actually working for myself. If you are a cleaner, clean such that when you leave the company, people will say there was someone who worked here who was a great cleaner.

Success and greatness are not partial. They know who to follow. They are attracted to only the best and remember this, A winner is a winner before he's become a winner. Work like a winner!

Be Your Best!

CHOICES

Today, it's about Choices. 

Everyday, we are presented with hundreds of choices to choose from. Our reactions to experiences we face each day. There are choices and then there are consequences of these choices. Every choice we make surely has a consequence. 

Sometimes we unconsciously make some choices but they are still choices and of course there are consequences. So the best thing we can do is that each time we want to make a choice or a decision, we pause and ask what's the consequence of this choice Or we ask ourselves 'will the consequence of this choice bring happiness to me and those who it will affect?' Then decide.

A sign of Maturity is the ability to delay gratification. Sometimes, you give up your rights just to allow others have their way.

A great person sees tomorrow and then takes action today.

Be Your Best!

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